11.20.2010

GGG is 80!

Today I am oh-so-grateful for my grandmother! We call her GGG (pronounced "Triple G" for Great Grandma Groom), and today we celebrated her 80th birthday!
I have so much I would love to say about her, but for now (because we just got back from a quick trip to Seattle for her birthday dinner, and it's nearly 1 a.m.) I'll suffice to say that my grandmother is one of my very best friends, confidants, and cheerleaders. She is quick to point out when I'm being foolish or smart, and her never-ending support is like sunshine to my soul! I am so loved by her and she by me ~ it's a treasure!
Happy 80th Birthday, Grandma!!! We love you!!

11.18.2010

First Snow Dusting

We awoke this morning to a fine mist of snow all around! It was crunchy and icy and could have easily been confused for heavy frost but for the investigation that showed it had settled even on fence posts and yard furniture! One look and Kate said: "It's messy, Mom! Let's go clean it up to-ge-ther!" Funny, I tend to think the white snow - before it's been rained on, sanded, or driven on - looks clean! Messy! I love it!

Note: "Together" seems to be Kate's "word of the week!" She wants to do everything "together"!

11.17.2010

Health

Today I am thankful for my family's health! We are blessed beyond measure, and not a day goes by that I don't express gratitude at our good fortune.

Today Collin had his yearly check-up, and he "looks great!" He read the doc a book, showed off his climbing skills, displayed his big brother love towards E, and braved his flu shot. He weighed in at 48 pounds and stood tall at 45.5 inches!

Eli had his two-month check-up (ok, late, but they gave me a pass since he's healthy, and we have four kids!), and I filled out the four-month Ages and Stages Questionnaire (early on that one!). He scored "above average" (got highest marks possible!) on each of the expectations for four month developmental milestones! Woohoo, E! He weighed in at 16 pounds, 5 ounces and was 25 inches tall!

Twins Separated by Four and A Half Years?

I confess: I mistakenly call Eli "Owie" at least twice a week. It was making me a little bananas until I ran across some old video clips. I've posted a few links to E lately; here's one of O at E's current age (just under 3 months). Click here to see what I mean: Owie Video!

11.16.2010

Mid-November Already?

It is amazing to me that it's already mid-November. Thanksgiving is next Thursday! Apple Cup is just around the corner! And let's not forget the Christmas Holiday Season! And then (sadly), Eli will start school instead of go to work with me. What a whirlwind the past few months have been, and, yet, it's been an amazing ride! Having a large family, a full time job, and being committed to both certainly keeps me happily (albeit sometimes wearily!) on my toes! Speaking of weary, I've been "planning" to run on my treadmill nearly every morning this month, and I've hit the "off" button on the alarm each morning it went off. One day I ran for 15 minutes. I have aspirations of another marathon some day! And I have "baby weight" to shed! More importantly, I love to run! But I also have four kids with runny noses and nightmares and midnight potty runs and late night nursing sessions. So I do what I can ~ and cherish all of the moments along the way. I'll get there. I think I can. I think I can. I think I can. In the meantime ...

Today I'm thankful ...

... that I got to see Kate on the big yard at school today! ~ Owen *Kate's transitioning to the preschool class and that class has opportunities to play with Owen's class during outside play times!

... that I get to see Marley and Taylor and Uncle Jared again soon and that you came to lunch for Stone Soup! ~ Collin *Each student brought ingredients, the class spend yesterday dicing the veggies, and today the teachers hosted a Stone Soup Luncheon for kids and parents! So cool! Collin said he mostly chopped potatoes and carrots and rutabaga! Wanna see my reminder invitation from Collin? I knew you did! Here:
"Ston Soup Tomroe. I hop yo r thar. To Mom"

... for Aba! And Rikki! And Uncle Jared and Aunt Janae! Can they come to my house soon, Mom?! ~ Kate

... for Stone Soup Luncheons and moonlight runs! I was SO glad to get out of Everson Municipal in time to make the second half of the luncheon! I missed the story reading, but I got to sit with Collin and enjoy the feast! I think Collin was double stoked because I'd told him I wasn't sure I'd make it, and then I did - without Eli even (he still had a sitter). "I knew you'd make it, Mom, so I got extra fish crackers so we could share!" Oh, Collin, I was so glad to be thar! I also laced up my shoes and headed outdoors for a fantastic run and great girl time around the lake tonight! See?! I'm going to get there! Girl time and a run while Kevin puts the kids to bed. Now that's a winning combination!! : )

11.15.2010

Seahawks Sunday

We watch football; the kids make stunt films (*sometimes they finger knit, do creation station, play hockey, paint, build with Lego, watch the game and barter football cards ... sky's the limit, really). Sundays are fun! Here's the best of Owen's footage from yesterday!

Then I told O to pass over the camera: Owen's Quick Jump (so I can get back to my documentary)

Each kid ultimately took it to the next level with long jumps and crazy stunts! Kate even jumped multiple times from the top step, Kai jumped down backwards, and Kevin - the big kid - jumped like a bunny and tucked his head down and pulled his feet up so he wouldn't crash against the ceiling level! Fun times!

Peak a Boo, Eli!

I haven't been able to capture a full on laugh fest yet, but this Peak a Boo Moment is adorable!!

It's Working!

Today was a breakthrough in our Month of Thanks! We jumped in the car after school, and Owen - without any prompting! - said:

Today I'm thankful for Brannon! [Then, I prompted: Why?] Because I'm grateful for good friends! - Owen

I'm thankful that today is the first day of the Read-a-Thon! [Why?] Because I love reading! I'm going to raise lots of money! [You know the money's for your school, right?] Yeah, well, right. We're going to buy new toys and a balance beam and stuff though.

I'm thankful for Trick-or-Treating! - Kate [Then later at dinner:] I'm thankful for dinner!! Thanks, for the good dinner, Daddy!

I'm thankful that my month of focused awareness (really 10-15 minutes a day!) is proving to be a success! ... I'm also thankful for power! Go electricity!! The wind is seriously howling, and I'm typing as fast as I can in hopes that I finish this post before the power goes out! It's already flickered twice! ; )

*If you're interested in supporting the kids' Read-a-Thon to Raise Funding for their school (new board books and floor pillows for what will be Eli's room in another month and a half and a balance beam and other gym equipment for the bigger kids, etc.), please contact Collin or Owen! They are accepting donations at a flat rate or per book for a two-week reading period. (Common numbers are $10-$20 or .25 or .50 cents per book.) Each boy is aiming for 25 books total (~2/day). [I put a rule on Collin: a level 2 reader or above = 1 book; two level 1 = 1 book. He read 7 books tonight, for a total of 5 books in the count.) Kate's aiming for 1/day plus she's listening in as Collin reads and when we read with Owen. We're not going around or making calls, so this is my one and only solicitation (unless you're a grandparent, in which cases, you can be expecting a call soon!). Thanks in advance!!

11.14.2010

Today I'm Thankful for ...

... long weekends, good champagne, enticing foods, quiet getaways, my brother and sister in law (who watched our kids so we could enjoy the quiet getaway + Eli!), and Seahawks Sundays with the Schillingers! *I think that catches me up since I missed a few "thankful" posts the last few days! ; )

I'm tired and need a nap now that my vacation is over! G'Night!

11.11.2010

Four Seasons Rock!

Today I am thankful I live in the Great Northwest! We enjoy every season up here, and it's absolutely wonderful! In the summer, we bake in 80-90 degree weather (only for a month or less); in the autumn, the leaves change colors and fall! In the winter, we usually get a dusting of snow - enough to sled on once or twice, but rarely enough to block us in or require an SUV (I should be knocking on wood!). And in the spring, it's beautiful too ~ flowers bloom, the days get longer, and the birds and neighbors all come out!

It's a blustery day today ~ the kind that makes you want to curl up with a movie and eat comfort food for dinner! So, that's exactly what we did! Mmmm ... meatloaf and mashed potatoes! *I also saw a rainbow, dashed between raindrops from Costco to the car, and laughed at Collin's pantlegs drenched up to his knee from playing tee-ball with his friends! "That's why I want to wear shorts to school still!"

Note to Kate

Kate, you are beautiful - inside and out!
At two and a half, you have a sweet, deep, raspy voice that sings to me - sometimes quiet and squeaky like a mouse and other times loud and show-stopping like an elephant! You have a large vocabulary and very articulate sentences, and you speak directly to your audience. "Look at this, Mom." "Can I do that,Mom?" "I wear my new boots, Mom!"You are sensitive to others and almost always ask before you touch something, get on something, or do something. For example, when I am in my favorite chair with my legs up, feet on the ottoman, you'll come up and say, "Can I get up there, Mom?" I'll nod, and you'll climb on my legs, facing me, and do all kinds of acrobatics and tricks - falling between my legs, flipping over my legs, tickling my feet and seeing how long I can still hold you up!

You love to be a helper:
You have fine, silky hair with a touch of curl ("like you, Mom!"), and you love to have it in "two ponies" or "three ponies, like Miss Amanda do" (two up front then all of it together in the back in a third band). You love to put barrettes and bows in, but they don't tend to stay in too long -- sometimes you take them out, but more often they fall out in a wresting or chasing event!

You love to play with your brothers! They chase you around the house, and you yell, "Chase me, Owen! Come get me, Collin!" and you laugh and laugh! And they chase you, staying just one or two steps behind you, which makes you squeal around the corners! Then you'll run to me or Dad, seeking sanctuary - until you've caught your breath, dart off, and beg them to run after you again!
You love temporary tattoos; your arm is currently covered in them! (Trick or Treating was good to you!) You call them "hat-toos" and you put them on yourself with a wet wipe, always asking me to "set the timer, Mom!" so you'll know when the application is complete.

You have a couple of favorite outfits: a teal hoodie dress that you wear either with matching teal knee-high socks or with matching striped teal leggings. Sometimes, like today, you wear the leggings with a teal long sleeve top on the socks. You check every day to see if I've washed any piece of the ensemble "Is it clean, Mom?"
You also love to wear anything "that my Grandma made to me." Currently, that's a long floral-print dress, with a big red bow in the back and a red jacket with polka dot lining. You love it! You also love anything with polka dots!! Almost every outfit in your closet has polka dots somewhere! Even the bow clips for your hair have polka dot ties! Each set of jammies is covered in polka dots, but your favorite is your Hello Kitty nightgown. You hardly ever wear pants (sometimes leggings); you're almost always in a shirt or dress - sometimes with tights, sometimes with leg warmers! I can count on one hand how many times you wore jeans since you started dressing yourself! You also love shoes - lots of shoes. You have more shoes than anyone in the house. But you are also constantly misplacing them because you prefer to go barefoot and because you love to change them throughout the day (sometimes with other people's shoes)! Speaking of changing, on the weekends you might change your outfits 3 or 4 times a day!

You think everything is "purple," but tend to pick things pink and green. You know how to use your fork, but I have to remind you because you know that you can eat
faster if you scoop with your hands! You don't like to be the smallest at the dinner table -- you're always standing in your chair. We remind you "knees or bum," and you comply but are back up on your feet in no time. You've never fallen, and you stay in your seat, so for the most part, it's a battle we don't fight at home. (Just realized that you don't do it in restaurants or other people's houses ... hmmm.)
You have your own big girl bed in the room you're sharing with Eli (although he's never yet stayed a whole night in there with you), but you rarely sleep in your bed. You are great about going to sleep - but you prefer to set up your blankies at the top of stairs and sleep the night away there. Sometimes if people are over, you sleep in your doorway instead, so I know you won't accidently get stepped on.

You don't really like for me to cut your fingernails and toenails, but if I promise to put nail polish on, you sit perfectly still. I put clear on your fingernails and pink on your toenails; you love it! "They are pretty, Mom!" I can see that your salon bills will be high when you're older! *We'll go together - how fun!!

Your favorite show is Curious George. You also enjoy the Cat in the Hat, Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Dinosaur Train, and Bob the Builder.
You love your dollies and love to wrap them in blankies and put them to sleep. So far, you haven't mastered getting their clothes ON, but you know how to take them off so they are "Nakey Baby" all the time!

You love blankies - have lots of them every night, morning, snuggle time! But your favorite is your "polka dot gankie" that Great Grandma Marshall made for you.

You are very girly amongst all these boys, but you're a total tomboy compared to, for example, the Gonnella Girls!
You are contagiously sweet and happy! Frowns, sadness, and tantrums pass quickly ~ almost like you recognize that you'd rather just spend your time having fun and being happy! *I love this so much about you!

I love you, Katelyn / Picnic / Kate-a-rina / Katie-Kate / Kate / Pumpkin! (If we call you a different name, like Missy or Princess, for example, you'll say, "I'm not Princess, I'm Picnic!"

11.10.2010

Today I am Thankful For

... books ... they help you learn to read! - Owen

... toys!! - Kate

... that you picked me up late tonight (at 5:30) so I had lots of time to play! - Collin

... coffee. Venti, bold, with cream, every morning and again in the afternoon. - Me

11.09.2010

Eli's Rolling from Front to Back ~ 3 1/2 Months

Eli's rolling! To watch, click this link! Fun times! I caught it on camera almost immediately!

Marriage

Today I am thankful for my marriage!!
Today is our 8 year wedding anniversary -- the day we celebrate our first step together on this fantastic journey! I am thankful that our marriage is joyful and steadfast! I am thankful that instead of our marriage being challenged, we love each other in every thing we do and, quite consequentially, we get to enjoy many, many of life's great and wonderful challenges! (*We have four kids, after all!)

I am thankful that our marriage is not defined by our daily routines or who unloaded the dishwasher (or didn't), who changed the last diaper (or didn't), who picked up the groceries last (or who forgot to), or who paid the bills this month and with what money. I am thankful that our marriage is defined by our commitment to tackle each of those tasks together - taking turns, supporting the other, getting it done - and enjoying each other and our moments together along the way.

For me, it really is about doing the small things so that we can live out our big dreams. For example, Kevin told me not to do the dishes tonight; said he'd do it. It was a sweet gesture, and I know he meant it with sincerity and generosity when he said it. He then - unexpectedly - went up to ease Kate's night struggle (she's been having night terrors). So I went over and finished up the dishes (the rest of the kids were in bed asleep already). I didn't have to. But I wanted to. I wanted to in part because I know that if he didn't do them like he promised, I'd be totally charged tomorrow and I'd probably end up doing them anyway, but begrudgingly and bitterly (the food's dried on by then - ick!). But the second part of the reason I did the dishes is that I realize it's not about who does what when. It's about team work. I knew that he also had to work from home tonight, and, after comforting Kate for over a half hour, I knew he really shouldn't be spending his time on dishes or he'd cut into his sleep or not get his work done as needed. On the other hand, my plan for the night included a pot of tea, blogging, and a book. I still have time for all of that - just maybe a little less reading. And my only tradeoff is that I can now sleep in peace, knowing the dishes are done and won't be waiting for me and Kevin's getting his work done, won't feel guilty at the sight of a full sink in the morning, and will be to bed sooner than later. Not a bad tradeoff.

I believe our marriage has resolve because of these types of acts: daily acts that make our marriage work and keep our journey bitter-free and open to love. I looked up marriage on Wikipedia: it's a legal contract, a social union. But to me, it's so much more than that. It's the opportunity to share joy, to experience love, to support another and to feel supported as you engage in living in the spirit of teamwork and unity and the joy that brought you together! Kevin and I married because we were committed to each other and to a future full of that opportunity. This is our journey, and I want it to be the best! So I try to always give him my very best. And he does the same for me. And I am so thankful for that quality in him. It's one of the many reasons I married him! (*I think he's sexy as hell, too, so there is that as well! ; )
Here's to giving it our best ~ always ~ so that we enjoy every step of this amazing journey we're on together!! Happy Anniversary, Kevin! I love you!!

Fashionista!

Polka Dot Tights. Red/Pink/Orange Striped Skirt. Blue and White Hooded Sweater. And over the top - Outfit #2 - Gray and White Sweater Dress. Then she accessorized! She added a necklace, a ring, two pretty bows, knee high boots and a pair of gloves. Kate's making quite the fashion statement today!

11.08.2010

Ideal

Today I am thankful for my job - for the diversity it entails (criminal misdemeanor prosecution and parents' representation in CPS cases), the flexibily it provides (I have my own practice) and for the opportunities its presents.
For example, I enjoyed much of my day snuggled with this cutie or fighting hard to hide my smiles as he squealed in conversation with my colleagues in the back of the courtroom while I was up at the table addressing the court about a case. He was escorted out of the courtroom twice - not because he was disturbing the proceedings with his cries but because his delightful banter was causing everyone to grin (not always appropriate considering some of the topics discussed)! In the pic above, which I snapped with my phone, Eli and I were strolling back to the office, enjoying the crisp fall air, after our afternoon hearings in the courthouse.

Childhood Joys & Fairy Tales

Do you remember catching snowflakes on your tongue? Raking leaves into a huge (wet) pile to jump into? Sunday I watched the boys dart around Bloedel Donovan Park, catching falling leaves! It was exhilarating! The wind was blowing just enough to rustle the branches and cause hundreds of leaves to fall for the catching!
When the winds died down, the boys started shaking fallen branches (Collin) and gathering leaves and tossing them in the air again (Owen) so that they might fall again and have a second chance to be caught! It was delightful!

Cute Story: We went to a 7-year-old girl's fairy-themed birthday party Sunday. My boys and two-and-a-half-year-old Cody were the only boys present. While the girls (and Cody) fluttered around in wings and crowns, waving pixie wands they each got to make, my boys watched from the sidelines - present indeed and enjoying the party but NOT partaking in the fairy fun. *They did however LOVE the "fairy mist" - the water bottles each had holes in the lids so the water could be sprayed out into the cups! Their end of the table had all of the cups filled to the brims! But I digress ... Anyway, as soon as we got in the car, Collin asked: "Did you grab fairy wings for us, Mom?" Me: "No, you said you didn't want wings!" Owen: "What?!" Collin: "Mom, call Lisa! See if she still has them! We do want wings! We just didn't want the GIRLS to SEE us wearing wings!!" And so it begins ... we don't care what most people think of us, but girls' opinions - now that's a whole different story!

We headed home without making the call, but I had worn wings at the party, as had Kate. Plus Kate had an extra pair of wings at home. So the boys joined Kate, doned pink and green wings, and spent the evening, according to Kate, "flying like a bird in the air, Mom!" around the house.

Welcome Baby Girl!

At about 12:30 this morning, November 8, my little niece was born healthy to a very tired Mama! I heard it was both stressful and amazing, and that Carolyn was steadfast and inspiring! Baby was bright eyed and alert after the first few moments and has dark hair, a dimpled chin, and many of her Mama's beautiful features. Congratulations, Mom and Dad!

Zac holding his baby girl for the first time!!

*She wasn't named or weighed when Grandma left at 2 am to get sleep. : )

11.07.2010

Today I'm Thankful for ...

BIRTH!!

I've been stalling on this post tonight, waiting with my cell in hand, to hear big news! My brother and sister-in-law are at the Birthing Center as I type (they've been there all day) working towards the arrival of their first child, a little girl! It's all very exciting!!!

Congratulations, Zac and Carolyn!!! Can't wait! I'm sending you the very best vibes I have and lots of love and the rest of my energy! I hope it helps! And I hope everything is going well down there! Love you!

*I'm also thankful for the rise in technology! That I can follow along via text in the birth events is amazing!! (although I haven't been updated now in 51 minutes ... makes me nervous ... except my step-mom is actually in there with them, and, really, she should not be texting. I'm sure there are more important things for her to be doing!) ... When one of my cousins was born, 20 of us were on Facebook having a running dialogue for an hour or more as my cousin brought us play-by-plays from the delivery room, and we placed bets on the time, the size, the sex, the name. Even then I remember being so shocked (and yet so, so glad!) that he was posting as he watched the birth of his child!

The birth of a child is an amazing and wonderful event, and I feel so blessed to have experienced it four times myself. Indeed, I am very thankful today for birth.

Pumpkin Patch 2010

Along with approximately 7,000 other people, we headed to Stoney Ridge Farms as a family one beautiful Saturday afternoon. *You may recall, we also went with Collin's class the week prior. We had intended to also go with Owen's class, but we thought he was going on a Friday. His class split up, and he went on Thursday unbeknownst to us. (Well, we knew he was going on the field trip and had given permission, but we thought he was going Friday AND had planned to join and assist!) Major bummer. But anyway, the whole family went one sunny Saturday:
Two and a Half and Oh-So-Fabulous!
Eli was just under three months.
On the wagon ride out to the patch and apple orchard!
The pic above is one of my favorite pictures ever. One of my others is of Collin eating his first hand-picked apple!
(I love the biplane in the sky above!)
*Kate is clapping for joy! The perfect, round, green pumpkin is a treasure indeed!
As you can see, we went straight from a soccer game! : )
That's Uncle Jared pushing Kate and the pumpkins! He and Janae came up for the adventures!
Seriously, Owen is eating one of the biggest apples ever!! Several people commented and asked where he'd picked it!
The pics on the farm are some of my favorite every year. I'm a total spaz with the camera on this day - both because I love the pics and because I have so much fun on this trip that I don't want to forget a second of it! (and I have a terrible memory; pictures work wonders to jog it and bring the memories flooding!)

Jack-O-Laterns 2010

Collin's beard says it all! Cleaning out pumpkins is mucky business! But it can be so much fun! This year after a day at the farm with Uncle Jared and Aunt Janae, we did the pumpkins in two phases:

I. Clean out the Pumpkins (at our house with J+J)


II. Carve the Pumpkins (at the neighbor's house, with Kevin's pumpkin waffles for dinner!)


The Boys' Halloween Art


Collin's Pumpkin (He's big into drawing castles and knights and dragons at the moment - I think there's a medieval drawing book at school - so a haunted castle was right up his alley!)
Mine, Kevin, and Kate's Pumpkin - we all contributed to this work of art! I wanted a traditional Jack-o-Latern. Kevin wanted a beauty mark (which inspired Rebecca to name our pumpkin Robert De Niro). Kate wanted triangles.

And now for the token cheese:

11.06.2010

Siblings

Today I am thankful my kids have siblings.This morning, Owen became inspired to write. He started by writing out the alphabet on a card, then he asked if I'd help him write a few words. I agreed (of course) and helped as I made coffee, hot chocolates, and omelets for breakfast. Next thing I know, Collin has stepped in and started writing the requested words on cards for Owen to read and copy from! By the end of the morning, Owen had drafted this card listing some of his favorite things:
Meanwhile, Kate turned Eli into a real-life doll:
Poor kid. *I confess that once Chrissy and I painted our little brother's nails and dressed him up. He was so cute! (He was maybe two then, but to this day, he has better hands and nails than either of us.)

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