Some time around Kate's one-month birthday, Collin was talking to Kate when she tried to talk back. I said to him, "Oh, Collin! Did you hear that?! Wow! She loves you so much!!" And he said, "How do you know, Mommy? She's still checking me out ... getting to know me."
And it hit me. I had certainly noticed that he was more cautious around Kate than Owen. He hadn't wanted to hold her (except on the very first day), hadn't wanted to be in pictures with her (at least not posed ones), and didn't introduce her to all his friends at Blossom or in the neighborhood (Owen was bursting to share "his baby."). And I had wondered why. ... He wasn't bitter or jealous or resentful at all; he just didn't seem to share in the "big fuss" over our new baby. Still, I didn't push or even comment because when things were quite, he approached her often, and he was sweet and had a piqued curiosity.
Turned out, Collin was "getting to know" her.
Fast forward two weeks. Kate is six weeks old. As Collin is entertaining Kate one night, he starts singing her a song. I listen with a smile. The boys love to sing to Kate. Usually Collin sings "Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star," and Owen sings "Baa, Baa, Black Sheep." It is so cute to hear Collin's voice as he sings to her because it's always in a super high-pitch. ... Then I realize Collin is singing her a song (made up, of course) about family, telling Katelyn about her own family! "There's Mommy and Daddy. and Owen and Collin. and you - Baby Kate. We're A fam-i-ly!" Collin included her in his family picture. Tears filled my eyes as I watched them. realized just how lucky we all truly are to have each other ~ to love and be loved, sharing the bond of family.
Not coincidently, that night, when we tucked into bed, Collin told Kate he loved her - for the first time out loud.
And so it happened. Collin got to know his sister and joined in the "big fuss." He began asking to hold his sister, volunteering to calm her when she cried, and talking about her to others. : )
5.28.2008
She sleeps ...
I'd heard other parents "brag" about it. I'd read books on strategies to make it happen. But it was like a Great Myth. Fabulous Folklore spread from family to family. In our home, I can assure you, I'd never believed it could truly be. Certainly not this soon.
Sleep. More specifically: Sleeping through the Night.
Kate slept a wonderful eight and a half hours last night ~ at seven weeks!! The boys hardly slept that long in one stretch at seven months! Everybody KNOCK ON WOOD!
With Kate, we have been so lucky in the Sleep Dept. So far: no colic, long stretches of sleep, and no day/night confusion. And, did you hear me when I said - yep - eight and a half hours! THANK YOU, KATE!!!
Now, could you please teach you big brother O?? : )
Sleep. More specifically: Sleeping through the Night.
Kate slept a wonderful eight and a half hours last night ~ at seven weeks!! The boys hardly slept that long in one stretch at seven months! Everybody KNOCK ON WOOD!
With Kate, we have been so lucky in the Sleep Dept. So far: no colic, long stretches of sleep, and no day/night confusion. And, did you hear me when I said - yep - eight and a half hours! THANK YOU, KATE!!!
Now, could you please teach you big brother O?? : )
5.27.2008
Katelyn Turns 7 Weeks Old
Milestones: (1) Rolled from Tummy to Back (twice in a row then and once again just this past Sunday) - 5 and 1/2 Weeks; (2) Smiled in Recognition - 6 Weeks
The boys quickly adapted to her presence in our family and constantly dote on their baby sister. Saturday morning I was folding laundry, and Kate was in her bouncy seat in the boys' room while they played. She started to fuss, and I watched as they gently pulled her seat towards their fan, turned the fan on, covered her in their favorite blankets (old blue and doggie blankie), and loaned her some of their cars. Then Owen rocked her, and Collin sang her a song. Ultimately, I suggested that she was probably tired, and Collin ran for her pacifier, gave it to her, and the boys lulled her to sleep. It was adorable.
Ski to Sea Parade - May 25
Ski to Sea Junior Parade - May 16
5.24.2008
Summer Itch
Wow the last few weeks have flown by! Here's a quick recap:
After three and a half weeks maternity leave, Kate and I were spontaneously invited up to Whistler for a CLE (Continuing Legal Education) conference for municipal prosecutors. Within two hours, we'd rearranged a few appointments, booked our room, packed our backs, and hit the road! We took the train up, and it was beautiful! If you ever get the opportunity, I highly recommend taking the train as it travels along the coast, past logging towns and beautiful scenery. It was a lovely three days ~ we learned a few things and Kate was wonderfully quiet and cooperative during the seminars; we went for our first shopping trips in the Village; and had our first Girls' Night, ordering a chick flick and room service in our hotel room!
We returned for a final weekend at home, then I went back to work full time. For a day. By Tuesday Collin was sick. By Friday, Owen was sick too. The boys both got Hand, Foot, & Mouth Disease (so I was forced back to part time with a full time load). Unfortunately for Uncle Jared and Aunt Janae, we had no idea what they had or that they were still sick really when we headed down for a weekend visit ~ the same day Owen got bad. We spent the weekend camped out in their living room, playing Wii, and listening to Owen's cry and slow moans. BTW - Hand, Foot, & Mouth Disease evidenced itself on the boys with fevers, odd appetites, and mouthfuls of cancer sores. It was not pretty and looked (and sounded) very painful. Luckily, the boys' hands and feet escaped the attack.
All and all, our house was sick two long weeks. And then, amazingly, we were well in time for SUMMER!
That's right! Summer hit last weekend ~ or at least it felt like it did. We participated in the Junior Ski to Sea Parade in downtown Bellingham Friday (see post above) and made the most of the opportunity to be outdoors Saturday and Sunday. The sunny weekend was a treat! We pumped up the pool and the kids laughed and played, while Kevin and I tackled yard work and projects. Fantastic weekend!!
After three and a half weeks maternity leave, Kate and I were spontaneously invited up to Whistler for a CLE (Continuing Legal Education) conference for municipal prosecutors. Within two hours, we'd rearranged a few appointments, booked our room, packed our backs, and hit the road! We took the train up, and it was beautiful! If you ever get the opportunity, I highly recommend taking the train as it travels along the coast, past logging towns and beautiful scenery. It was a lovely three days ~ we learned a few things and Kate was wonderfully quiet and cooperative during the seminars; we went for our first shopping trips in the Village; and had our first Girls' Night, ordering a chick flick and room service in our hotel room!
We returned for a final weekend at home, then I went back to work full time. For a day. By Tuesday Collin was sick. By Friday, Owen was sick too. The boys both got Hand, Foot, & Mouth Disease (so I was forced back to part time with a full time load). Unfortunately for Uncle Jared and Aunt Janae, we had no idea what they had or that they were still sick really when we headed down for a weekend visit ~ the same day Owen got bad. We spent the weekend camped out in their living room, playing Wii, and listening to Owen's cry and slow moans. BTW - Hand, Foot, & Mouth Disease evidenced itself on the boys with fevers, odd appetites, and mouthfuls of cancer sores. It was not pretty and looked (and sounded) very painful. Luckily, the boys' hands and feet escaped the attack.
All and all, our house was sick two long weeks. And then, amazingly, we were well in time for SUMMER!
That's right! Summer hit last weekend ~ or at least it felt like it did. We participated in the Junior Ski to Sea Parade in downtown Bellingham Friday (see post above) and made the most of the opportunity to be outdoors Saturday and Sunday. The sunny weekend was a treat! We pumped up the pool and the kids laughed and played, while Kevin and I tackled yard work and projects. Fantastic weekend!!
5.12.2008
No Time!
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